First Semester of Science School for 3 Year Olds

When my daughter turned 3 she saw a short video on YouTube about water molecules. She liked it.

It has always been very hard to get her to bed. So I had the brilliant idea that I could start telling her about science for her bedtime story every night.

The problem with brilliant ideas is that daily life does not always welcome them.

My daughter is a very strong-willed child. When she wants something, she wants it now, and if she is not getting it, be prepared for something very loud. We have tried everything legal: encourage, motivate, begged, reasoned, yelled, threatened, cried. All to little avail. She is basically running the family with an iron fist. She is generally not a bad kid, but she acts up when she is tired or hungry.

I started these science chats as an experiment, not sure what to expect. Now it has been half a year since we started. What have we achieved?


Highlight: The World Science Festival 2011

The highlight of the semester was the World Science Festival 2011, a 2 day science fair for kids.

The first day of the fair was located on Governor's Island. We walked around and played mini golf. Finally we found the science fair booths. I really wanted her to see the NASA tent. This was the coolest thing when I grew up. But by then she was too exhausted, and we had to run her home, before we had a crying incident.

The second day was in Washington Square Park.

Robot Booth

There was a robotic competition for school teams. That was her favorite.

She saw the small Lego robots and immediate took a liking to them, and ran over to play with them.

My wife said: don't get too excited every little boy loves robots and superheroes. I thought true, but she is not a boy and she does not love superheroes.

Veterinarian Booth

We went to a place where they were telling the kids about working as a veterinarian. She was sitting there for a while with a big plush tiger.

After that she fell asleep in her stroller.

We walked around among all the different booths.

Science Quiz for Kids

On the big stage a woman asked science questions to the audience of little science kids.

The science kids were jumping up and down to get to answer them.

My daughter woke up right when they were closing down the festival.


Highlight of the Highlight

I was disappointed about how little we had gotten out of the fair so we went home and started assembling a chair made out of cardboard.  The chair was for her to stand on to reach the kitchen sink.

Cardboard chair assembly kit

She was good, and focused on the project for maybe 30 minutes.

This turned out to be the highlight of the day, and the first half year.

Is this science or preparation for factory work that no longer exists?


Engaging Kids in Science

We did inspire some other parents to talk about science with their kids.

One of her friends who is a 3 year old very energetic boy was saying:

There is an army in the body, ..., called the immune system, ...

I was impressed they had found a way to teach science that he could relate to.

I considered telling my daughter:

Your body is filled with princesses and each princess has a lot of housekeepers that keeps the body clean.

First Semester Science Education Result

To sum things up, during this last half year we have talked a little about:

• Cells
• Bacteria
• Viruses
• Water molecules
• The sun, plants and the stars
• Day and night and the seasons
• Magnetism
• Electricity
• Simple geometric shapes

We have done a few science experiments. They get repetitive after a little while, and generally involved balloons, water and magnets.

We have not read much in her science books. At night, when she is tired, she usually has an attention span of 1 second.  Unfortunately, this is when I have time to read with her. She will jump out of bed at least 10 times. She will literally walk her leg up the side of the bed until she is standing on her head.


Is Teaching Science to a 3 Year Old Absurd?

She has learned less than I had hoped for. When she is fresh she can be very focused on things that interest her, but I get very little of that time.

We have met a few high achieving parents with kids with a strong interest for math at 3 or 4 years old.  They are the kids that score in the 99 percentile on their school application IQ test when they are 4 years old. This allows them to enter the lottery for 300 citywide gifted and talented spots in New York City. For them science education certainly makes sense.

My daughter has shown no sign of being a math kid. She likes a lot of different things: drawing, painting, yoga, dance and music. I still have no idea if she has any aptitude for science or math. I am very happy she shows some interest in science.

My experience with teaching science to a 3 year old had some success. She is excited about science, whatever science is in her 3 year old mind. I have been happy to share my interest with her.

When you share any adult interest with a 3 year old kid you should know that their brain has limited capacity for abstract and logical thoughts. And you should be prepared for disappointment when you find out that your young child does not share your skill set or interest.

My plan moving forward is, lower the ambition level a little but continue telling her a little bit about science when an opportunity presents itself.

Cardboard chair with graffiti in front of kitchen sink

Glimpse Of A Toddler Science Sunday

I have a 3 years old daughter who has taken a bit of an interest in science. I started this blog after reading the back cover of the book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother. I thought that the book advocated a very bad way to teach science and math to kids. My first post had a lot of ranting, but not a lot about the simple science projects that my daughter has been doing. In this post I will show a glimpse from last Sunday's science project.


From Party Girl To Science Girl

I had expected my daughter to be an introspective, nerdy kid, but for a while she got the nickname "party girl" since she loved to climb and run around. We started Sunday in a park in Tribeca with a great jungle gym. She still loves to climb.

Lately we have had a hard time getting her to take her midday nap, which generally means grumpiness and wildness later. She took a short nap and when she woke up she asked to do a science project. I was exhausted, since I did not get any break, but we started a science project.

First Experiment Mixing Oil And Water

The first experiment was mixing oil and water. This illustrates that water molecules and oil molecules have different chemical properties, water being polar and oil being non polar. This was first time she tried this experiment. 

Mix water and oil, see that they separate

Add soap

Now oil and water mix to an emulsion

The Laboratory

I bought 2 small science kits. They look like a pile a plastic junk, but they are actually a good way to get started with simple science projects.

The Laboratory

Archimedes Revisited

We had already made an experiment with putting clay in water and seeing that it sinks, then turn it into a boat shape and see that it floats. She tried that one more time.

Building a clay boat

Everything was going great, but slowly her attention span was getting worse. 

Stomping on clay

Next thing, the mild mannered science girl had turned into The Hulk stomping on the clay to flatten it. This worked pretty well, except that the clay got stuck to the floor. We abandoned Archimedes.

Planting Seeds

She also repeated the seed planting experiment. Since the cup with the plants from the last seed planting experiment got knocked over.

Planting seeds

This went well but her attention span was getting worse again.

Cute is turning into wild

We tried to continue, but jars from the science kit were now flying around the laboratory. Maybe we should quit while we are ahead.

Toddler on a rampage and olive oil on camera lens

Time to run her out of the house. We took her to a bar to see some live acoustic music and let her run around and dance. She proceeded to rediscover slam dancing; while one of her little friends was dancing the pogo, a punk dance from the 1970s where you just jump up and down with a stiff torso.

Can and should a 3 year old girl be into science?

This blog is about my 3 years old daughter, who has taken a bit of an interest in science. She is a big Why Kid. A day shortly after she turned 3, I was watching her alone. We looked around on the Internet. One thing we found was a one minute low quality computer simulation of water freezing on YouTube. To my surprise she liked it.

I went out and bought her a couple of picture science books and small science project kits. She liked that too.

A week ago she proclaimed:
I am into science and music.

This only started 3 weeks ago, and who knows if it will last.

Drawing on blackboard

Night time stories from Pippi Longstocking to science

My daughter's big problem is that she is a very bad sleeper, every night I have to stay in her bed and read her stories till she falls to sleep. Her favorite stories are about Pippi Longstocking, a little orphan girl who refuses to go to school, eats candy all day long and beats up policemen and school teachers for fun.  I loved those Pippi stories when I was a kid. When I read them now I wonder if Pippi really is such a great role model for kids. Recently I have started to mix Pippi stories with talks about science.

Bedtime Science Story Topics

The topics for the bedtime stories are very simple chemistry, physics and biology explained without much detail.

• Simple molecules, like water
• Temperature and molecule motion
• Cells
• Bacteria
• Virus
• Planets
• The sun
• The stars
• Magnets
• Electricity
• Energy as something that can make other things happen

Science projects

The science kits are basically just a pile of plastic junk. Still, they make it easy to get started. These are the experiments we have made so far:

• Made boats out of clay that is heavier than water
• Get a metal paper clip floating on water to illustrate surface tension
• Spinning top with rainbow colors turns them into white
• Planted seeds and watered them
• Look at plants and other things through a magnifying glass
• Took the temperature of hot and cold water
• Got a little ball suspended in the air over an air stream

She likes the the projects. She often asks if we can do a science project.

Should a 3 year old girl be interested in science?

I will split this question into 3 sub questions.

Can a 3 year old understand science?

I read Piaget's theory about child development and he said that a kid brain only develops logic capabilities when they are 7 to 11 years old.

I do not think that logic reasoning is a requirement for understanding basic science.

Does learning science early help them later?

This is debatable. I am very curious by nature. Before 10 I was interested in science, but it was hard to do any of it by myself. I had a friend who was older and had a chemistry laboratory in his tiny basement room; it was the coolest thing to be there. I got a little chemistry set myself, but did not really know what to do with it. It did install the notion that science was cool, and I ended up studying science later.

Is it bad to take playtime away from kids?

At 3 years old, science is just another game. 

You have no idea what little kids are interested in and what they are good at. Exposing your kids to a lot of different things is valuable. 

Reaction to Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua

A small incidence sent me into a rage. I discovered a new book called Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua, who is a law professor at Yale. She is using extreme methods to push her 2 daughters to academic excellence. They had to be the best in their class in everything except drama and physical education. Math was a topic that she really drilled them in. Just reading the back cover sent me into a rage; so much that I decided to start this new blog: Bedtime Science Stories, just to get my anger out.

There are hundreds of critical reviews of the book already, so let me just give one thought: If you raise your kids on the principles in Tiger Mother you risk turning them into obnoxious know it alls or possibly insufferable or damaged kids.

Science for everybody

Amy Chua and I both want to raise daughters that excel in science and math; but we see science very differently.

To me, science is about exploring the world. 

It is about being curious.

It is about questioning things, including your own findings.

Science should not be an elite activity. Making it very competitive will make a new generation of kids hate math and science. Understanding our world is worthwhile activity even if you are not the best in your class. 

Preliminary results

Take the time machine half a year into the future to see preliminary result in my fourth blog post: First Semester of Science School for 3 Year Olds